You are dating your partner for some time now and think you have found the person with whom you want to spend the rest of your life. However, you wonder whether your partner reciprocates your feelings. You cannot decide when and how to say those magic words. Is this the right time to say “I love you”?
The dilemma that everyone faces
Everyone in a relationship faces this dilemma. When is the right time to say “I love you”? The good news is there are a few signs that would help you to decide whether you should say those magic words or not. Let us find out.
When you love the person
Yes, love is the greatest indicator. If you know you love your partner, if you care for her and always want to be with her, you know you are in love. This is the right time to pop the question too. So, go ahead and let her know your feelings. Chances are high that she also reciprocates your feelings.
You accept each other
The initial days of dating are spent in discovering each other. You show your best self and also get the best from your partner. However, a few dates down the line, the real selves come out. You may find out that your partner snores or doesn’t like to clean up the house but you are okay with it. It is when you accept your partner and still love him, you would know that you are ready to say those words.
You are ready to be together in tough times
Tough times would come, they always do as life is not a bed of roses. Would you stand by your partner if something bad happens? Would your partner support you if you are in a problem? If the answer is yes, you should not wait to reveal your feelings.
You dream of a future together
If you unknowingly find yourself dreaming of a future together and planning it too, you are in love. If you love to plan to go on long vacations or share your dreams, if you are ready to take up financial responsibilities, it is time to take the big leap.
You feel it
Yes, if you feel it strongly, you should say it. There can be no right time or way of saying those special words. If you are going crazy for your partner, just tell her so.
Saying “I love you” and making your partner feel special is perhaps the greatest gift of a relationship. Don’t waste your time but say those words and make your relationship more special.